In fact, I advocate that every woman be a part of a circle and a circle that meets at least once a month, or if you can’t do that, once every two months or every four months. But you have to have a circle, a group of people, women - smart, wise, can-do women - who are in the world doing their work, and you need to meet with them as often as you can, so that they can see what you’re doing, and who you are, and you can see the same. And you can talk to each other about the world and about your lives. In a circle of trust and safety. It’s crucial. It is crucial for our psychological health and our spiritual growth – it’s essential. -Alice Walker
Coincidence??? I just returned home from a dinner with the girls, in which we brainstormed how to live our dreams. We came to the conclusion that we need to talk more with each other, get together more to support each other in achieving what really satisifies our souls. Then, I came home and read this interview with Alice Walker. And there I found this quote. Hmm. How true it is, and I am asking myself if I believe in the notion that coincidences mean your life is on the right track...
We wise women must seek each other out. We must open ourselves to one another and learn and build and be great. Every woman has her story and her gifts to share. We all can benefit from that, from new perspectives, from shared experiences. I don't know where I am headed, but I believe the key to getting there lies in getting connected in a meaningful way with other women who are bound for greatness. And we all do have that capacity for greatness within us.
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My friend Rach would say that yes, that quote means your life is on the right path.
I'm in. I'm PROUD and HONORED to be a part of your circle. We will help each other and we'll be better women because of each other.
I love this sight. I love that you are trying something new. I love that you have your life together enough to try something new. I, on the other hand, am trying to keep my head on my shoulders, my mind on today and my wriggling baby within arms reach. Shan, you've always been an inspiration to me - it's why I stick around. It's got nothing to do with the other two - but don't tell them, ok?? Tee hee!!
I know what you mean about always searching for the answers. One thing I truly have found such peace with in my life is in my marriage. I wonder if I need to implement the same strategies with other things. I made a decision many years ago that Ben would always be a constant in my life and I would only ever surround myself with things and people that supported that. I decided to never ever, ever focus on faults. I trained my thoughts to search for reasons why I was so lucky to have him. Not only that, I made a point of telling him every chance I got. I still do that to this day. The reason I’m sharing this is because if we wanted to, I honestly think we could take something and turn it into anything in our minds over time. (Your thoughts become your words, and your words become your habits.) I remember the days I simply loved my job. Over time I let negative energy in and so the cycle began. Perhaps people who are so blissfully happy at work are that way because they turned their jobs into their dream jobs using positive thinking. Who knows! I’ve taken to going back to the simple things in life – my wonderful marriage. It’s a start. My friends - I feel blessed to have them – to have you guys. These are the things I need to focus on. I know these are the things that make me happy. Perhaps if I just stopped searching for a small amount of time – and just started to embrace and truly appreciate what I have for that same small amount of time – then other things will either start to look different or fall into place. I think we need to spend time together to celebrate each other as well as to reflect. Perhaps everyone can compliment me all night. I’m sure we’ll all benefit form it…yes, perhaps I do win the prize for the most obnoxious! …and you really need to teach me how to summarize here…
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